It just is and it's fine
This entry was posted on 11/15/2006 1:39 PM and is filed under uncategorized.
Some men, if not all, want to suck a dick. Crude way to put it? Perhaps. Accurate... probably. Men are experimental and curious by nature, especially when it comes to sex. Many will tell you "I would never do that" but many of them have thought about it... alot. I'm not talking about bi-curiousity, I'm talking about being sexually effectual. I made her cum, I can see that, so I'm good in bed.
Guys like to be sexual pleasers. They want to know that what they are doing feels good. Unlike vagina's, penises are very telling. They get hard and give evidence when pleasure is achieved. This is sexy. Knowing he made that happen can often feed a man a sense of sexual achievement. Knowing right there he gave pleasure. That is one screnario. There are many other factors that can play into this. Knowing he can control your level of pleasure this way, submitting to you by taking you into his mouth. There are many facets that may or may not present themselves.
There are many levels of lovemaking. Getting off, a hot fuck, being deep in "like" sex, making deep love to someone you are in love with. The list is endless. There is more to love than making love, we all know this. Women often hope men would get as screamingly excited about them as they do about a touchdown or a home run from their favorite sports team.
Men get scared that if a woman has a penis it must be a big, ugly, hairy & manly thing like they might have, but in truth most females that still do have a penis, have pretty and often very feminine ones, if you can wrap your brain around that concept. It is most different than you probably imagine it to be and just because it's there doesn't mean she wants to do to you what you've been hoping to do to her. She is still the girl, you are still the guy.
Transsexual women don't want to feel like the guy in the relationship. Most of them want more of a masculine man because it makes them feel more feminine. Feminine is attracted to masculine. Being a feminine guy will only get you rejected by her. She's not a gay dude and she doesn't want to bed one.